Teen Pregnancy Questions
You will have many questions if you're pregnant. All women who are expecting a baby have concerns, especially if they have never been pregnant before. Because of the additional social pressure that is placed on young women under the age of 18, you will have be looking for even more answers.
What should I do first if I think I'm pregnant?
Make an appointment with your doctor as soon as possible. Your doctor will be able to tell you for sure if you're pregnant, and will give you a prescription for any dietary supplements you may need to keep you and your baby healthy. If you're nervous about seeing your family physician, you can make an appointment with your local Planned Parenthood. They can arrange for an examination and pregnancy testing, and offer non-judgmental counseling.
Can I go on drinking or smoking? What about other drugs?
Studies show that smoking and alcohol can increase the risk of miscarriage, Sudden Infant Death Syndrome, premature birth, and some birth defects. Even if you're not yet sure you intend to keep the baby, or even if you may decide later to terminate the pregnancy, it is wise to give up drugs and alcohol now. You will be making extremely difficult decisions in the next few weeks, and you need to do so with a clear mind.
Can I get financial help?
It is important to take stock of your financial situation, so you'll know if you need how you'll pay for your medical costs and ongoing support. It's time to sit down with your partner, your parents, and any other people who are important in your life, and find out how much financial and emotional support you can expect. If they are unable to help with the medical costs, you may be eligible for the Prenatal Care Assistance Program (PCAP) in your state and Medicaid. Financial assistance may be available in your state, but the rules are getting tougher, and you may be expected to work. If you live at home with your parents, this may also affect your eligibility. A counselor in your school or your church may have a list of local agencies that could help. The child's father will be expected to help financially, so he should be included in any discussions you have about your future.
What if I'm not ready to have a baby?
If you've looked at how your life will change if you have a baby and decide that you're just not ready, there are options. You can give birth to the baby and allow another family to adopt it, or you can choose an abortion, or termination of your pregnancy. Both of these options can be very stressful, emotionally - but so is the decision to raise a child. If you want to consider either adoption or abortion, be sure to find a counselor who will help you make the decision that is right for you, without trying to talk you into something that you may not agree with. Adoption services can be found in your local phone book, and abortion counseling is available from your local Planned Parenthood association.
More articles on the common questions about pregnancy:
Adoption - Still and Option for Teen Pregnancy
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